Why are the guys I don’t like chasing after me, but all the guys I do like don’t seem to ever feel the same?” The answer to this age old question is simple. Around the guys you don’t want, you own your standards. Whereas with the guys you do want, you start dropping your standards and think ‘as long as I get close to him, it will work out.’ What makes a woman attractive, are her standards. Matthew Hussey (via fitista)